For years after the end of a five-year romance, one young woman described how she continued to revisit loving memories of her ex, the special ”bubble world” they had created together. “My ex was that rare girl who wanted sex more than I did. This girl had every red flag in the book and was really damaged. We love each other but i cant get iver the hurt he caused me by cheating and habing no remorse over it.. we argue whennwe see each other, he wants me to act like it didnt happen and i cant because i feel my feelings count. In short, don't give yourself time to think about her. But that doesn’t mean that breaking up with him came any easier to me. i just miss him aLOT!! New Reply. I still deep down care for my ex and can't get over her. Let him borrow my money, he later started having parties and new friends without me. It’s been three years and two relationships later, and I still miss … We knew each other's for 4 yrs and were bff before the relationship. 3. However, there are times that I miss my ex-boyfriend. Long term, she probably would of ruined my life.. Butttt she was just so incredibly fun. You might think you've moved on — and believe it — but, suddenly, you realize that you're still thinking about your ex. But this isn’t necessarily so. I chased for 1.5 yrs and stopped. It's been over two years since the initial split from my marriage, and while I am truly happy most days now and have learned to allow grief to pass through me when it needs to, those landmines still go off. Divorce was 5 years ago. i think about calling him, but he once told my brother that he has a gf and will be marrying her soon. She's been dating a guy for a year and a half now. When we were dating, he was so sweet and caring, my friends liked him and everything. It can be difficult to tell if you're really over someone. After close to a year of walking along with him, there came a point when I no longer felt like we were in sync. Once you’re back near your ‘default’ feelings and state of mind, go ahead and proceed with the next section below, as we calculate (for real) whether you want your ex … I can see that my ex opens my new post emails 2, 3, 4 times — either deliberating whether or not to read each new blog post, or actually reading it that many times. That just ripped my heart, but at the same timei am haapy for him that he has found someone he loves and she loves him back. 2. He acts like he don’t care about me like I don’t exist. Not been with my ex wife for about 2 and a half years. You BOTH feel like giving up, but something more powerful just won’t let you give up. We have a daughter and I’m pregnant with our son. There’s nothing wrong with you. What should I do? Is it ok that I miss my ex after 2 years. Posts. At last days she started to become distant and cold, I think it was because I became kinda needy and clingy (so wierd) because I was not like this at beggining. I felt very comfortable with my ex. Breakup pain is a kind of pain you need to live through. Viewing 12 posts - 1 through 12 (of 12 total) Author. I should have known better. It started great and then went bad quickly. She never responded. She broke my heart like six or seven times that way.. After it happened for the last time in December, I decided that I didn't want to live in this misery for the rest of my life. I remember the night she came around to and after a bottle of wine, spilled that she wanted to let him know that she missed him. Since we were in high school (seniors) at this time, I had to see him everyday for the rest of the year, having fun with other girls. We don’t have any kids yet but life is still great with just me and my husband. Does he even miss me? At the time i was still having little feelings for my ex crush. Answer: You need to stop looking at the past through rose-tinted glasses. One of my friends broke up with her ex and after a short while, she genuinely missed him and the break just reinforced just how much she loved him. He texted me 6 months later about the money. Why do i suddenly miss my ex after 2 years Why do i suddenly miss my ex after 2 years I had never been in a relationship before. It's just not fair to your new sweetie, and it won't help you get over your ex any more quickly. A lot of people (myself included) think this means that they are still in love with them. Home → Forums → Relationships → 5 years on still miss my ex. A year later she called me back up and wanted me back. But due to COVID i am working at home and spend a lof of time by myself. Neither has he. Things escalated very quickly and we loved each other immensely. Do the right thing and break up with your current boyfriend or girlfriend. My boyfriend broke up with me after 2 1/2 years, and all he said was that he hasn’t felt the spark sense Christmas, and that’s a lie. All of a sudden, he left me and I was devastated. And because I loved my former spouse so deeply, the pain is still unbearable when it strikes. He won’t talk to me about how he feels he avoids. Keep yourself busy, socialize more and meet new people. Because the trust between us died, it made the relationship complicated because I could not trust anything he would say even if I had the evidence in hand. He is more calm, shy, very handsome, tho lacks confidence, definitely an introvert, but he opened up with me very quickly and declared his love to me after 2 weeks of dating. We lasted 4 years but had to go our separate ways when he fell in love with another woman. My ex husband left our family 7 years ago for my (single w/2 kids) friend. We were marries 26 years and i truly loved him. She dumped two years ago after dating for two years. Participant. My husband is very kind and understanding. but it has been more than 2 years and what about my … Tracey Cox explains why many women can't get over their former partners I miss my ex, its been 2 years and i havent moves on. I don’t think you’re yet able to make the right call, especially if you just googled something like, “I still love my ex” or “I still have feelings for my ex”. I still miss my ex after TWO YEARS? I'm now happily with someone else, but sometimes I still miss her. 5 comments. She always had emotionally dependance on me, maybe she spread that to me I don’t know haha. Same exact thing 6 months later. July 20, 2015 at 3:36 pm #80143. spider29378. I still think of her. Hello, my ex dumped me after 5 years of relationship. After six months, she told me she could "only love me as a friend." I treated him like a king. I had a boyfriend whom I met at an international dating blog. I recently sent her an email (email was only option cause she would not answer my call and she rarely ever texted me back) the email was telling her how I still care for her an miss her dearly. I cry every single night. I have dreams that we are a family again. OUR 2 sons are young men now, but I find it difficult to move ahead with my life. We first dated in highschool. We all grieve differently and it takes some of us longer than others. I met a guy back in 2003 who (to me), was the most beatiful thing I had ever seen. You want to have those feelings for someone again. Just talks to me about the kids that’s it. I’m so heartbroken. Question: I have not contacted my ex for five years, but some times I miss her a lot. I’ve been on both sides of the spectrum. She was always sending me dirty pictures while I was at work and basically up for doing it whenever I wanted. I swear it was all she thought about. Why You Suddenly Miss Your Ex Out Of Nowhere & What To Do About It. I was with my ex for 2 years. I've been with my Ex in "on and off" relationship for about 2 years. report. I still miss my ex/oneitis after 2 years? I had a similar situation - I couldn't get over my ex for a long time, no matter what my friends told me. It’s a feeling that comes out of nowhere and threatens to totally throw you off track. It’s called grief. They deserve to be with someone who treats them like they're #1, not #2. share. Sometimes if you see your ex in a dream, it means that you just want to have what you had with them. Unfortunately, if you are still hooked on your ex, there is no immediate cure that can remove your pain. save. He also said he didn’t have feelings, he made up any excuse for me to leave. I keep thinking she will ask me back. My ex fiancé of 6 1/2 years broke up with me 2 months ago. And we would have the greatest times together. hide. Because before the break up he always wanted to hangout, go on dates. No contact has made me forget her. However, he broke it of because of long distance issues. My ex and I dated for 18 months, our relationship was not happy, but I stayed bc I love him and think it's worth it. Is that ok? with him i could be myself and i was feeling peace. Five years is an extremely long time to still be thinking about your ex. Two years ago (2011), I was in a relationship with my first boyfriend ever. 60% Upvoted. Ten reasons you’re still obsessed with your ex - but why getting back together could be an even bigger mistake. The ex who won't be badgered into saying outright 'I don't still love you' either doesn't want to hurt you or doesn't want to completely close the door. i am a full time student and work part time , but still think about him every second. She has moved on and got a house and a new bf. I barely get to see my kids and miss them so much. I left him at that time but I wanted him back. It’s been a year or more and many break-ups in between, and BOTH of you are still “trying to make it work”. What’s up with that? It’s been two years since I left my ex-husband, aka the narcissist in my life. Tough Love; By Jennifer Still; You broke up a while ago and you’re totally over your ex—you don’t think about them during your day to day life and you certainly don’t miss them… until you do. We fought a lot and kicked him out so he said he got sick of the fighting. We only dated for 7 months. He lied about his status which ultimately killed our trust. If you're still heartbroken over your ex, then you shouldn't be dating someone new. This topic has 11 replies, 8 voices, and was last updated 2 years, 3 months ago by Debra. People often dream about their exes for years after they break up. But i was still madly in love with him. I just found out today that the ex and his wife (my friend) have purchased property in a place where WE as a family would spend summers. 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